First of all this would never happen!!!!! First , I am a woman, two I am honest and have values, three I would not ever ever take the spirit from people making them pointless, endless humans standing at a cash register inputing information to make a company grow to a endless compost pile of bullshit. While I sit in the best seats at the ball park and horse racing boxes, Nascar tickets, Corporate jets, my children drive BMWs and I get this giant bonus check every year etc. My people have no health insurance, retirement, reasonable sick and vacation days and I pay minimum wage. Most of my employees  in need of further education and a sense of direction to empower them to be inspirational for others.

1. ABOVE ALL BE KIND TO OTHERS
2. RESPECT YOURSELF
3. LAUGH ALOT

Last week i went to my adult daughters house.  She has 3 bio kids and 2 foster children.  She had been having trouble with them keeping their rooms clean. I guess like all kids. Well i told all of them if they cleaned their rooms and kept them clean for one week they could all spend the night with grandma.  The next week I went to see them and the entire house was clean and the bedrooms spotless.  One of the twins granddaughters said " Grandma remember you said........."  That was it . I took all five kids and we enjoyed the evening and my daughter and son inlaw also had a great time without the children.  What a blessing that grandkids keep you honest.

my favorite memories of childhood was the summer time and my younger brother and I rode our bikes to almost every creek in town and collected tadpoles and crawdads.  We dug worms and fished at the local park.  We often made believe that we would runaway some day to far away place.  Our main goal was to make enough money and leave my strict, abusive parents.  Well it was our way of dealing with the problems at an early age.  So I was the leader and we collected cans from dumpsters, mowed lawns and thought of ways to join the circus.  The funny thing is that this make believe got us into more trouble than if we had just surcome to the torture.  My brother rode his bike off the garage and made high pitch noise and said "sister I dont think this will get us into the circus while holding his nuts. " We only made enough money to get some candy or soda and sometimes  comic book or two.  But these memories lasted forever in my mind because my brother  died before he was 30yrs old of drug addiction.  I still today see him calling out "sister......look at this tadpole its bigger than yours as he daggled off the bridge into the creek at the park."
My brother was a father and i often see him in his son. 

Most of the argumentsI have are with myself for compromising, being flexible when I know I need to be stern. Considering the  cost of the things we do.  I think alot . ..... I m not really a talker.  I will engage in debate with friends and family occasionally just to sharpen my skills but as actually an argument I cant remember.